Facilitator’s club – Starting the Process from the participant’s LONGING

It’s possible to use all the right facilitation tools, in the right ways, but still be working on the wrong¬†information.

I see it all the time. You have to start the process with the right information, so you move in the right direction. Otherwise you are working, but not on the participant’s actual issue. And that’ll make things tough.

In this video I show you how to find the participant’s real, deepest longings — which they probably will not¬†present to you automatically — so you can go the right direction and have the process seem to run itself.

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  1. eric diamond says:

    thank you, dmitri–very helpful.

  2. Reuel Czach says:

    I honor you Dmitri for being a man who shares his understanding and skills with others. You are a blessing to me and the men I can support in their work.
    This is a solid carpet work tool which I judge will make the work more effective.

  3. Steve Norcross says:

    Dimitri, I like the positive approach to guts work that you propose. By moving beyond the symptom complaint and asking what the person really wants, you’re opening the chance for positive growth.

  4. Curt Gustafson says:

    Thank You Dimitri. I like the idea for the true desire or finding the heart longing. Just hearing you talk about it helps me in my own life.

  5. Great job Dimitri. Well thought out, good examples and easy to understand. Very effective. I am looking forward to seeing what you have moving forward.

  6. Jeremy says:

    Dmitri, I just spoke with you on the phone, thanks for your time and I enjoyed this video.

    I’m fighting the temptation to ask to many questions because I’m sure they are answered someone in your resources.

    I’m drawn to process of leading others into a deeper awareness of their inner longing. My life has been transformed because I was able, by God’s grace, to run towards the longing of my heart – that of being a man of God…rather than a man for himself.

    I commit to understanding your work more fully and follow the call of the Lord. Thanks for your help, I feel more clear and purposeful. Peace brother,


  7. Dmitri says:

    Thanks everybody! I appreciate the appreciation.

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